AITA? I(23M) defecated in a Swedish cruise line and forced a cleaning lady(40s?F) to watch.

So recently, my girlfriend bought me a swedish cruise for an apology. I’ve been having a wonderful time, and a break from seeing her was really nice. Our relationship has been better than ever before, but the cruise has been an ease to my mind.

So the problem mentioned in the title began with a simple decision. The bathrooms are really strange in the cruise line and I’ve heard really bad things about them like people's intestines getting sucked into the toilet. I’m a naturally paranoid person so I wanted to avoid the toilets at all cost. I thought that not pooping for a week straight would not be a big deal, but I was really really wrong.

At the very end of the week, the urge was overpowering. I rushed to the bathroom holding in my poop desperately. When I finally reached the bathroom I let loose the biggest crap I have even seen in my life. The gigantic poop did not flush, and I increasingly tried again and again to flush the toilet, but all my attempts failed. Panicking, I ran to the hallway, looking for someone who could help. After several minutes of looking, I found a cleaning lady in the hallway, and begged her for help. My swedish is really bad so I motioned to the bathrooms and when the cleaning lady started to walk away, I yelled “Hey” loudly, she continued to walk away so I went up to her and grabbed her hand. I continued to motion and she relented eventually. I walked to the toilet and flushed while saying “Titta” (Which means watch in english.) However, when I flushed, the gigantic turd went straight down into the toilet. The lady glared at me with an anger I had never seen before and stormed off.

I am honestly not sure whether or not I am the asshole here, as the lady was clearly angry at me and I didn’t really know what to do. So reddit, AITA?