New strategy after retear?

Curious what everyone thinks. I don’t have trouble healing a fissure after it happens in like two weeks or so if I make my stool runny, but that doesn’t seem to be a smart long-term play because I end up right back here every 8 weeks or so it seems when it gets a bit too hard and formed. I’m wondering if it’s better to leave stool formed, but not super hard, and have a little bit of stinging and slight retearing that with each BM that takes a bit longer to heal, but when it heals, it’s more pliable and able to handle normal poops instead of those that are super soft and small that can only be achieved on MiraLAX. Thoughts?