What's something you want to complain about but feel like an ass when you do?

I want to complain about my friend who clearly needs therapy, says how much she's suffering multiple times a day but whenever I bring up professional help (because I'm genuinely worried and I can only do so much while balancing my own mental health) she declines and tells me it's not thaaat serious and she'll be fine... I just want her to be okay and I feel helpless lol