Husband Humping Me

My husband cannot handle touching me in a non-sexual manner. It drives me CRAZY. I am pregnant and my dislike for this has become so bad that I haven’t wanted to have sex at all. I don’t care that he says he’s joking or playing around. He loves to hump me and grab me and make sexual noises and I HATE it. I will be clear when I’m in a sexual mood and it’s appropriate to do that stuff. I have, in no uncertain terms, told him I don’t like this and that he needs to stop. In response I get some variations of: “I can’t help it”, “it just happens without me really thinking about it” “I do it less than I used to”. Does stop not really mean stop anymore? What part of “no I don’t like that” is in any way unclear??

I have tried to talk to my therapist about it and she told me guys need a release every 72 hours and she basically told me I should be helping him out, which makes me feel even more violated. If he needs a release so badly he can do it himself.

I came home not feeling great and he was holding me and rubbing my back. I had been crying. He was trying to get in a different position and he fucking humps me. I burst into tears again because I felt so violated. I’m trusting him to touch me in a sweet way and he ruined it. He told me he thought it would be funny. I didn’t find it funny. I just want to be listened to and respected.