Currently 14 weeks, how do I reassure myself?

I feel like weeks 12 to 18 (when you usually start feeling the baby) are anxiety inducing. On one hand on the 12 week scan you saw your baby for the first time and everything was perfect and he/she was moving around. On the other hand after that scan you have to usually wait until you start feeling your baby or your 20 week scan (unless you book private) to know if your baby is alive and well... I'm currently 14 weeks and I have no idea whats going on in there, I can't feel any flutters as its early and i have an anterior placenta so I will likely feel the baby a bit later than most people. What do you do to reassure yourself that everything if fine until your next scan? I did book a private scan for valentines day to know the gender (I will be 1 day away from 17 weeks) and I'm just hoping that the baby will be alright.