I’m even ghosted by overweight single mums...

I understand that sounds incredibly arrogant, they're obviously allowed to set whatever standards they wish but hear me out

I’ve always preferred chubby women, not curvy but chubby in a way that isn’t exactly conventionally desirable - so women who fit that description are generally who I swipe right on

I don’t just swipe right, I send a compliment or a superlike with a message... I make sure it’s funny or engaging not boring or slimy, maybe asking about their dog or their travel or whatever they mention or showcase in their photos

90% of matches —> no response

So I'll send a follow up message that sometimes gets a conversation going... almost without fail they will vanish as soon as I suggest meeting up if not before

Sometimes like today, I’ll search these women on social media out of interest and see that they have kids that they’ve hidden from their profile (I'm not interested in dating someone with kids so that's a dealbreaker anyway)

But in other words a 6’4 attractive guy with a well made profile who sends well thought out messages is being ignored by overweight single mums

I’m not arguing that they should be dropping to their knees and kissing my feet, I know I’m not everyone’s cup of bleach but for this to happen pretty consistently surely just goes to show how ridiculously one sided the online dating world is

It also seems like if I can't get them off the app onto texting or at least social media within a day or two of matching we will never meet... but how do you suggest meeting up immediately without coming across as though you're only interested in something casual?