I regret marrying my husband

I’ve been with my husband for 10 years, and honestly, I’m happier when he’s not home. Everything he does annoys me. I’m a SAHM, but I work 2-3 days a week for extra income, and I still do everything—cooking, cleaning, laundry, bath time, dog walking. I have to ask him to do the bare minimum, like putting away his own clothes after I wash and fold them or picking up his plate after eating.

And don’t even get me started on intimacy. Sex is awful. There’s no effort, no foreplay. The closest thing to initiation I get is him saying, “Feel free to wake me up.” I haven’t been eaten out in over 10 years, and when we do have sex, I’m the one doing all the work while he just lays there. I don’t feel loved, wanted, or desired at all.

I’ve stopped being affectionate because if I don’t initiate, he won’t either. At this point, I don’t even know why we’re together. This is just a rant—no advice needed.