Quad isn’t innocent & Dr G isn’t a good person (both can be true)

Honestly I feel like I’m missing something and need to rewatch the season with Quad and Dr G divorce bc this sub is sooo proQuad - when I saw 2 toxic people who took things too far….

I saw this last episode as Quad trying to antagonize Dr G & Sweet Tea lol. First it started with the intimacy comments and having a baby - which I think she thought would anger Dr G, but it was just uncomfortable for everyone because it was apparent what she was trying to do. But I think the straw that broke the camels back was turning around and saying he needs a baby + that she would do the baby shower + that she “supported their relationship”. They aren’t on good terms & she wasted years of his life knowing she didn’t want to have kids with him- so idk why it would be appropriate for her to even speak to them. She was looking for a fight.

And for their history - I know Dr G did horrible things - but she was also involved. There’s no excuse for his behavior but I’m not going to act like it’s not apparent to me who Quad is. She has victimized herself a lot in scenarios where we have seen both sides (Mariah + Quad & the ladies + Quad). Dr. G is the villain but I don’t think Quad was just sitting there and he attacked her. It’s seems like they were toxic and attacked eachother.

I also didn’t like how she turned around and was saying that Sweet Tea is jealous of her looks etc like honestly someone is lying to Quad bc she is not a supermodel. She’s pretty… just like all of the other ladies.

I feel like a lot of people on this sub are pro quad bc of what Dr G did. Which he is 10000% disgusting but not the only one that was toxic. And she shouldn’t be let off forever because of pity.