It’s wild to me when rich people are OAD

So many rich people, including famous ones, only have one child, and it's really hard for me to understand because I'd have as many children as time, finances and nature allowed. But Mary Tyler Moore, Rue McClanahan, John Stamos, *Tim Allen and Steve Martin are just a few OAD celebs I can think off of the top of my head. For the women in makes more sense, because being actresses, being pregnant would pose a big challenge considering how much of their career centered on their physicality. But the men? Wild. I put an asterisk by Tim Allen because he actually has 2 daughters, technically. But they're 21 years apart. He essentially had one child per marriage. So while he was Tim the Tool Man Taylor on prime time throughout the 90s, with a bustling house of 3 kids-- the reality was he in fact had a quiet(er) household with just one little kid at the time. I know it takes two to decide to have another child, so maybe his wife didn't want another, given the fact that he repeated the pattern in his second marriage, I wonder if it was his idea? 🤔 But then I also know he had a lot of creative control over Home Improvement, so having 3 boys and being this family man who loved having kids, was like his whole thing. I just can't fathom having all that money, a flexible schedule (TV shows go on hiatus for like 4-5 months out of the year), and a young wife, and being a man who doesn't have to be pregnant or give birth, but noping out of more babies.

While I'm ranting about men's decisions, it's also baffling to me why you'd wait til your 50s/60s to become a father for the first time. (Ie John Stamos, Steve Martin, and many others). I get it-- it's a flex that you can. But why would you delay your own immense joy and also cut your time with your kids on Earth short, and basically eliminate your ability to be a grandparent????