broke up with my porn addict bf

i’m a little devastated. he lied for the whole year we dated about not watching it , he said it was disrespectful to watch it in a relationship. all lies. lies upon lies. i finally found out last week and broke up. he always knew i would break up with him if i found out. i still love him but now i feel hopeless that all men watch porn and the ones that say they don’t are lying. will it be possible for me to find one that doesn’t watch it and doesn’t lie about it? i feel tempted to get back with him just because of how normalized porn is nowadays.. i’m not sure i’ll ever find someone that meets the standard. can someone give me hope