My BF went on a "date" with his GBF

My boyfriend has a lot of friends, both babae and lalaki. He's naturally friendly kasi. Meron din siyang girl bestfriend. Magkaibigan na sila since high school and we're all late 20s now. I'm okay with that naman.

Pero last month, may fiesta samin and nag inuman and nagdisco sila. Mas marami ang girls than boys, high school classmates nya dati. Around 5am na siya nakauwi and nalaman ko na inisa isa nyang hinatid gamit yung motor nya yung mga classmates nyang babae including yung gbf nya. I felt uncomfortable. Yes, hindi safe umuwi and wala nang masasakyan so bakit hindi maaga umuwi? Syempre, he was defensive kasi gusto nya safe lahat umuwi. Alright, gets.

And the other day naman, his gbf invited him kumain sa labas. It turns out, sila lang dalawa and sinundo pa ni bf sa kanila and hinatid rin pauwi. Isn't that a date? Normal lang ba yan? He was defensive again kasi nga "kumain lang naman sila". Pero bakit may pasundo and pahatid na naganap?

He gave me the famous line "I had a life before we met" and bakit ko raw pinagseselosan gbf nya. I told him na hindi ko naman pinagselosan yan dati, yung ginagawa nila ngayon is what's making me uncomfortable. He replied na yung overthinking ko raw ang reason why i'm feeling uncomfortable.

Sakin lang is bakit walang boundaries? Bakit parang walang respect sakin? Bakit walang consideration sa feelings ko? He doesn't see anything wrong sa ginagawa nila kasi nga friends lang naman talaga sila. I forgot to mention na may bf rin si gbf.

Now, he's not talking to me. Ang hirap daw mag explain sakin.