Non-virgin MLs vs virgin FLs

It isn’t a deal when both leads are experienced however I can’t buy the romance in the stories where the malelead was a womanizer or sexual intercoursed with someone before meeting the FL. It makes Fls to look like an object which reduces the effect of the romance trope. broken ring and most importantly house of fildette and problematic prince which made me hate their MLs are some of the examples