Feeling not connected to partner

hey, is it normal to not feel connected to your partner. I feel devoid of feelings towards him and I'm wondering if it's real or not. Genuinely can't remember if I do actually feel connected. Just deeply questioning our love. It's horrible when he is so wonderful , attentive and loving and clearly very in love with me but I feel nothing in return. What to do about this, it's making me spiral and feel so awful. Would really like to hear if this is normal or something to actually listen to, and also what you do to deal with this if you relate thank you very much