To have another baby or not. A mom's dilemma

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about having a second child. My son is turning two soon, and while part of me feels like I want to give him a sibling, another part worries, will I have enough time for him?

He’s been my whole world for the past two years, and I love our one on one time. I don’t ever want him to feel like he’s being pushed aside or that he’s getting less of me. At the same time, siblings can be such a gift, and I love the idea of him having a lifelong friend.

It's hard to imagine, my husband and I were both only children.

The challenge is, I don’t have help from my parents’ side, so it feels a bit daunting to juggle it all on my own. For those who have two (or more!) kids, how did you navigate this? How did you balance your time and make sure your firstborn still felt just as loved and supported? Does it come naturally?

I’d love to hear your experiences!