what would this indicate?

So I'm not sure if I'm in Peri or not. I've heard mixed opinions. Seen multiple doctors, Some doctors say yes, other ones have said no. I have no idea.

I've recently (this month) seen a menopause specialist and she thinks no. And before that I saw an OBGYN who also thinks no. According to them my hormonal levels are normal.

However as of 2024 I've been losing my hair (androgenic alopecia?). I also have little to no sex drive and genital sensitivity (for a decade, but it gets worse every year). My periods in 2024 had only lasted 1-2 days (when it used to be like 5-6 days and extremely heavy).

Recently, the past two months (Nov/Dec), my periods got a liiittle heavier and I had really bad cheek/jawline acne.

And now (today)I have breast/nipple tenderness which I haven't had for many years now ( I used to have it back when my periods were heavier).

So what gives? The doctors just brush me off so I don't know what's going on really. :-/

(I'm seeing other doctors for another unknown disease that's been wreaking havoc on me for 4 years now (causing limb weakness and Neurologic problems, I feel like it's connected somehow but idk).)