The Paradox of the "Rich" Filipino
Travelling abroad, mostly in Europe, and met people who provided a unique perspective on social behavior. Unfortunately, I’ve noticed a troubling trend among a this specific subset of Filipinos which are mostly middle-upper income classes.
- The False Billionaire Syndrome
They drive mid-sized Toyotas with an air of arrogance as if they’re in luxury cars and treat others, especially service workers, with blatant disregard. On the roads, they cut off other drivers, honk incessantly, and berate traffic enforcers, showcasing an embarrassing sense of entitlement.
This arrogance spills over into public places. They snap at janitors, belittle waitresses, and treat customer service reps with disdain. It’s as if a slightly higher income gives them the right to be rude and condescending. They even adopt exaggerated Californian accents, which come off as forced and pretentious.
- Bragging Rights and Social Media Influence
Education is another area they never fail to flaunt. They boast about where and what they studied in college, their scores in board exams, and their academic accolades, as if everyone is keeping score. This need to brag contrasts sharply with the humility of truly wealthy and educated individuals in first-world countries.
The rise of vloggers flaunting their wealth and exhibiting poor behaviors only exacerbates the problem. These influencers set a poor example by showcasing materialism and condescension, which their followers emulate. Numerous celebrities trend for similar behaviors, further normalizing this problematic attitude and making it seem acceptable.
- A Stark Contrast Abroad
The genuine humility and respect I’ve encountered among truly wealthy individuals contrast starkly with the behavior of these middle-class “rich” Filipinos. These observations aren’t meant as a blanket judgment but reflect a troubling trend.