Q4M: Why don't males shoot their shot anymore?

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT2jtrycX/

In this tiktok a girl is recording herself in a gym on a treadmill with the caption:

"Me paying $270 a month at equinox to dress in cute workout clothes and walk on the treadmill for 30 minutes so I can find a gym boyfriend... I've been going here for 7 months and nothing"

It got me to thinking, why don't males shoot their shot anymore?

DISCLAIMER: not all males, not all women, etc