"I don't have problem with hair, but babe you have to shave"

edit, because some people have no idea what manners are: it's not about preferences, it's about understanding that we are overwhelmingly taught from a young age that women without body hair are the only kind of women that exist. If your preference revolves around that then it's not about preferences anymore it's about, at the very least, acknowledging that your attraction has been influenced by a pervasive misogynistic belief and to at least be mindful about it AT THE BARE MINIMUM and not make a conversation about going against the patriarchy into a conversation about how you prefer people who fall in line with it.

ALL I am asking is to just let women who don't shave complain and be a little bit mean about how awfully we're treated for the horrific crime of letting a body exist as it is. I promise you won't die if someone online says that people who prefer the norm are immature, just let us vent.

Like, people who prefer women who shave aren't some oppressed minority. You aren't being hate crimed by seeing a vent about how annoying your demographic is (which they ARE, because it is overwhelmingly pressuring women to shave and not the opposite.)

Original post:

Usually sapphics are more understanding, but fuck when you do get the occasional lesbian who thinks women need to shave (for some fucking reason.) it just hurts so much, way more than if a man or a straight women said it to me... At least I don't care about men or straight women, but when a sapphic says it it's just gutting. I don't shave because I'm disabled and I don't have the energy to do it, it's not worth it as nice as it feels and looks. If you're gonna ask this of someone then you better be prepared to pay for their hair removal like fucking come onn😭

Edit: it wasn't even about my bush, it was about my leg hair and happy trail..... "You would look prettier if you shaved your belly", that really stung :(

Edit 2: to clarify this was a complete stranger, (I do sometimes like to flirt with random lesbians) so the context was definitely not for unsolicited grooming advice!!!

Edit 3: I understand that it's on-topic, but if you're here to comment or add to your comment about how you prefer to shave or prefer others to shave, please reconsider.