How did you forgive a cheating partner?

Problem/Goal: Caught my partner attempted a meetup a couple of weeks ago but did not push through.

Context: We have a son, 14 years together. We’ve had rough bumps before but this is the first time I saw that he attempted to meetup in Sogo.

I am what you’d call TH. Selosa. The usual. Pag nakikita kong may ka-chat siya iniisipan ko na siya agad. Palasilip ako sa FB niya. Kumbaga, I tried to control him.

However as they say, may paraan parati ang cheater.

Mahal ko siya. Sobra. I am willing to forgive and move past this.

Previous attempts: I have tried talking to him na. But to be honest, I need real life advice from people that have been here and done that.

Please do not judge me so harshly as I am seriously damaged from this. I am trying to be strong for my son, I wanna move past this.