Am I wrong for telling my boyfriend to stop talking to women when we go out?

Sorry if this is long. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months now. He is tall, outgoing, handsome and stylish which is great, but it comes with some negatives. Whenever we go out to bars and clubs, he gets hit on almost every time. I guess it might be because he’s outgoing but he entertains their conversation sometimes and even sometimes right in front of me. For him it’s just conversation and not flirting, but most people would see it as flirting. Because of that, I’m always scared when he goes out with his guy friends without me due to the fact I was cheated on in my last relationship. We got in a little fight recently because I told him he can’t talk to women when we go out and should just take their compliments and keep it moving. Am I wrong for telling him this or am I just being insecure?