Who here has been diagnosed with bipolar and ADHD?

F35, have been diagnosed and medicated for BP2 for 8 years. I’m confused. I have traits of bipolar, get hypermanic, depressive. I also feel like I might even be a bit autistic..

highly addictive personality, struggle with affection, highly sex driven, relationships fizzle out, find it hard to make conversation with people unless I click with them, struggle with eye contact, only really enjoy interaction with people unless I’m drinking with them. I’m barely consistent with anything, but like things the way I do them (my partners slowly figure this out so it doesn’t upset me), was seen as weird when I was a kid, a loner in primary school until I started drinking and doing drugs in high school.

I know this is something you’re all going to tell me to tell a psychiatrist about but I’ve tried and they always just concentrate on me being bipolar

Edit - I’ve also never had much of an interest of keeping a job, I stick with it for about a year or two max then get bored with it. I don’t know whether if this is to do with the fact Ive worked with food and serving customers my whole life and just get jack of it but I’d rather be poor then have to work. I’m always seen as a good worker up until the day I leave because I put in my all, I’ll even pick up other peoples slack but I hate the fact I can’t just stay with it.

And relationships - it’s exciting as hell at the start, but when it reaches a certain comfort zone I just get bored and look for other outlets to make me happy and then I leave.