How do you deal with people saying you don't seem like your partner's "type"? Why do you think people say this? Have you also been different from your previous or current partners' types?

How do you deal with people saying you don't seem like your partner's "type"? Why do you think people say this? Have you also been different from your previous or current partners' types?

Two women said, "she doesn't seem like his type," in front of my face after "partner" leaves the room. Anyone else have experienced this? How do you deal with people judging you and not understanding how you're with your partner? Why do you think they say this? Jealousy? They want him for themselves?

I am experiencing this from different races, too. Him and I would be interracial since he is white/Jewish and I am mixed black/white. The two recent strangers that said that were black women. I've experienced a lot of white women also trying to destroy our connection and called me delusional for thinking I could be with him. These interactions from others makes me feel insecure particularly when it comes to race because I've felt racism from the white women in particular (think Meghan Markle racial bullying). Him and I are both attractive and educated... but we definitely have some differences in... finance (he is wealthy, i am currently living in poverty after coming out of homelessness), age (15+ age gap), race ( he is white and he also is jewish... we haven't had a conversation about it yet but I wonder if he also has experienced his share of discrimination), attire (he dresses well/"high status"... I've been in depression and tend to wear the same clothes, Birkenstocks +socks, and haven't shopped in years), also I have been going through so much so i know I am not my most vibrant self especially due to all this bullying.....

All these women questioning me makes me feel insecure. His ex was way shorter than me, was fashionable and also had straight long hair.. I am tall and have curly hair. This is not the first time Ive been a white man's first mixed black love interest either. Who else relates? Any support and tips?