Being misgendered when I feel like I’m clearly a woman?

Idk how to ever deal with this. I'm 5'11 130 pounds, I had on sweatpants a t-shirt today.

When I had a short hairstyle like twa or natural twists I've gotten misgendered when I feel like I clearly look like a woman? It's as if people go out of their way to say sir etc on purpose sometimes and I don't understand why.

I've been hit on multiple times on before and Ive been misgendered about a few times before/told I look like a man indirectly(said about me not to me in public spaces) twice, I've been told I look like a model before, and at this point IDK how I'm perceived about 90% of the time, which doesn't help my anxiety whatsoever. Like atp I don't like leaving the house because it's so unpredictable and honestly uncomfortable. I'm not tryna brag on myself at all by the way I'm just trying to paint a picture about how all these conflicting experiences are frustrating, humiliating, and embarrassing.

Today I was at a mental health clinic of all places and a lady said sir right this way and I was confused like "are you talking to me" and she said with utmost hospitality yes. I'd like to think she was having a brain fart bc she literally had my folder in my hand to direct me back to the check in desk. My voice clearly is so high you would think after asking her that question she would've realized I wasn't a dude????I've been misgendered from a distance when getting an emission test. When I pulled up the guy said sorry bc he just assumed due to my hair (natural twist). I don't know, I just needed to get this off my chest and this feels like a safe space...

Edit: I wasn’t expecting much of a response to this im actually surprised at all the comments. I just want to thank everyone for actually having this be a safe space for us because every where else on the internet I feel like I’m probably the only black women in the whole thread. I’m not used to people being nice to me on the internet at all and I feel so seen right now y’all have no idea😭 I hate that this happens to us, but I’m glad we have a place to share our experiences. Thank you so everyone who went out their way to try and help me feel less alone 🫂