I’m so tired of being just a vagina

Every conversation I have with my family is about what I am. Am I dating anyone? When will I get married? When will I have kids? I’m so tired of it. Aren’t I more than my genitals? No one cares I’m borderline asexual. I’m sorry I’m not good enough for anyone to want to fuck me. I’m sorry I’m not pretty or smart or funny or thin. Why cant I be something else than an expectant partner or mum. I even want those things. But not right now. Why is that all you want to tell me. What if I never find someone? What if I can’t have children? Will my entire life have been wasted because no one found it worthy of their time to stick it in me? Why am I so worthless

Edit: I’m 24. But I feel like I’ve been running out of time to find someone since I was 19