Do people who don't go to clubs even exist???

Seriously, is it possible to live in a city and not having "nightlife" and "clubs" mentioned in every single conversation?? I am very good at masking and small talk so whenever I meet someone new it's all great and I'm happy because it seems we might become friends and then they start mentioning stupid clubs from my stupid city and the conversation dies because I don't even know what they're talking about. I just want to make friends and meet people but it's all "clubs-sex-clubs-sex-clubs-sex". I'll give sex a pass because sex is cool but FUCK CLUBS AND FUCK NIGHTLIFE!!!!!!!!!!!"