Who left first, husband or wife?

My wife and I spent time with some friends (all exmos or in various stages of leaving the church) and we realized that our wives were all the first to leave. My wife left a few years ago, and I stopped believing and attending about 1.5 years ago. There's a lot of reasons it makes sense to me that women would leave the church first, such as unequal treatment of women, and lack of love and acceptance for marginalized groups. I'm curious if based on your experiences it is more of a 50/50 split on who leaves first, or if it is primarily women that leave first.