I wish I would started early

Hello everyone. I’m about to turn 29 tomorrow I always had an interest in programming Took a class in high school but never took off with it I want to go to school for IT for programming and web development through local college but I have a wife and son with a “semi” full time job (i work for Amazon so I could be off work for no reason) It is very daunting because I haven’t done much of anything since high school and it would difficult to sit back and learn something new which I’m all for too by the way Can somebody help me look in the right direction ?