What is the ideal balance of control in a relationship? And how important is religion for you when choosing a partner?

Who do you think should have more say in decision-making? Should there be certain areas where one partner should have more authority?

Also, would you only marry someone who is a good Muslim (in addition to the basics like Namaaz, Fasting, etc). Eg) If you're a man, do you expect your wife to wear a hijab or avoid working a job. If you're a woman, do you prefer a husband who has a beard, goes to the masjid regularly, etc

Would like to year y’all’s thoughts

Edit: Rephrasing “strict on religion” to “good Muslim”people were misunderstanding me