I hope my parent's mindset were like them:

Ang hirap kapag blacksheep ng pamilya tapos di naman breadwinner trato sa'yo pero ikaw inaasahan. Walang emotional connection, emotionally unavailable, mentally abusive pa sa'yo. Kahit anong gawin di naman sila magiging kontento kahit ibigay mo pa langit at lupa puro demands pa rin matatanggap. 😔