which man should i spend valentine's day with

Option 1: My cheating ex of three and a half years who is begging me to forgive him so we can be together again and get married. Tall(ish), cute, hot, works as a pizza cook, skater, mustache and Dickies vibe. Super fun when we hang out, comfortable, sweet, easy. Is in pure pleaser groveling mode so he does whatever I want. Unfortunately can't forget that he cheated on me with a girl who boulders.

Option 2: My situationship of three months. Very tall, also hot, drives old trucks that he restores, republican, doesn't believe in the moon landing. Shoulder length hair and Carhartt vibes. Treats me like I'm the only woman in the world, some times literally gets lost staring at me. Adopts stray cats and hangs out with them on his porch. They adore him. Sexually charged when we hang. Unfortunately can only take so much conspiracy and republican economics talk in one night.

Also I'm kinda ugly, men usually don't even look at me and this never happens. So don't be jealous, it's fleeting and I'm trying to enjoy it.