Why are most ppl here gay or emo

Ok so first off, nobody take this the wrong way. I don’t care whatever choices ppl here make, you be you. I don’t judge nor do I have negative opinions. Pls understand that.

What I’m trying to say is most ppl here it seems to me are either questioning their sexuality, gender or identity. Or emos, have a bad living situation or are bullied.

For me, I’m a straight teen male. I’ve never questioned my sexuality, and my home life is rather normal. I have some friends and am not exactly popular but I’m not the loser quiet kid. I play sports and have fine grades.

I just don’t feel like I belong. A lot of people here seem to have bad home lives, or are questioning themselves. But for me, my life has been fine and yet I cut myself. I wish I knew why and idk if there’s anyone here who is in my position in that regard. I just feel sad and empty and I’m angry at myself because I don’t have a valid reason.

Edit: I’m sorry if people took this as me trying to make myself sound “normal”. I didn’t mean to word it like that, I was trying to mean how most people seem to be struggling with or have an identifiable issue that is the reason they self harm. The common theme on here seems to be self doubts about sexuality, I don’t have that problem and I’m confused on how I don’t have a reason.