Is she the crazy one or me?

So, I recently met a girl. She’s beautiful, hot, everything. Things were going well because I was talking to her, getting to know her, and discussing interesting things to keep the conversation going. But there’s a problem… When she comes to my place, she teases/seduces me, and when she does, I react, and we always end up stopping. Like, when I want to touch her breasts, she stops me; when I try to move my hand down, she stops me. It seems like she wants to be in control. She touches my chest, pulls me closer, kisses my neck, but she won’t let me do the same… Today she came over, and I wanted to sleep for 30 minutes before hanging out with her. She refused and asked me to lie down in the living room so she could comfort me. I found that silly but cute, but I really wanted to sleep, so I said I’d sleep in the bedroom. Then we went back and forth about where I should sleep… But I managed to carry her to the bedroom since I really wanted to sleep. But she ends up lying down with me, and there’s sexual tension. I get turned on, but she won’t let me continue. I managed to suck on her breast, but she stopped me. The worst part is that SHE WON’T TELL ME WHY… After all this messing around she did, I asked her about 8 times why she was doing this. She said her breasts hurt when sucked, that she wants to play and thinks I can control myself and nothing will happen🤡… man, I’m a guy, in that situation it’s obvious I’m going to lose control, but I don’t want to “rape” her, I don’t want to do anything she doesn’t want (or what I think she doesn’t want). Anyway, I got pissed and told her to get out of my bed. Then she got upset and left….