Not that attractive?

Does anyone else feel like the people around you are just boosting your confidence by TELLING you that you're hot/cute/beautiful and not really telling the truth? The reason why I ask is for two reasons:

  1. Every time someone takes a picture of me (whether face of full body), I never like it. I DO NOT look attractive when someone else takes my picture. It keeps reminding me of my "non-feminine" features like my broad shoulders, round face, short neck, and wider frame.

  2. Even if I have people in my circles say that I'm pretty and dress very well, I've been single for a while and have no dates, no prospects, no flirty DMs. Zero love life.

I understand that you don't have to be a 10 out 10 in order to be viewed as attractive. I've seen many different people of varying shapes, sizes, backgrounds, etc. find loving partners. Lately, I've just been feeling so undesired. I know I'm not UGLY, but I do feel like I'm just plain-looking.